HOW DO YOU PROTECT YOUR POSITIVE ENERGY?
If you’re anything like me, you can walk into a room and feel totally welcome and happy or like the ability to speak no longer exists within you.
All. My. Life. I’ve been told I’m a chameleon, I can fit into any group, get along with just about anyone and tone it down or pump it up.
But on the rare occasion, I’m rendered speechless.
When this happens, I’m usually around someone I:
A. Don’t trust.
B. Know isn’t interested in a thing I bring to the table, verbally and like, actually bring to a table.
C. Have a bad vibe from.
So, I say really weird things or start talking in an accent or say a joke that works on 99% of people, but always falls flat with the negative viber.
I can count on one hand the people I don’t get along with and the people who I don’t share my entire self with and never will.
I was once naive and trusting.
But experience has taught me to remember how people make you feel in your body.
Not just the things they say, but what actually happens in your belly.
Are you always crossing your arms when talking with them? Maybe you’re using that as a way to protect yourself, “don’t come any closer.”
Do you back up a little when they come towards you? That could be a natural way to keep their negative energy out of your bubble.
Have you tried to mend things, but no matter what it comes back to a feeling? Trust it.
Save your energy, your beautiful soul and your dazzling personality for the people who give it back!
There’s a reason these people are called ENERGY VAMPIRES.
Every story is negative.
There’s always some drama.
Nothing is ever good enough.
Run, don’t walk to the nearest exit. I’ll meet you there.